Here is a
landmark book that reveals the way boys think and that shows parents, educators
and coaches how to reach out and help boys overcome their most common yet
difficult challenges -- by the bestselling author who changed our conception of
adolescent girls.
Do you
constantly struggle to pull information from your son, student, or athlete, only
to encounter mumbling or evasive assurances such as “It’s nothing” or “I’m
good?” Do you sense that the boy you
care about is being bullied, but that he’ll do anything to avoid your “help?” Have you repeatedly reminded him that
schoolwork and chores come before video games only to spy him reaching for the
controller as soon as you leave the room? Have you watched with frustration as
your boy flounders with girls?
Welcome to
Boy World. It’s a place where asking for help or showing emotional pain often
feels impossible. Where sports and video games can mean everything, but working
hard in school frequently earns ridicule from “the guys” even as they ask to
copy assignments. Where “masterminds” dominate and friends ruthlessly insult
each other but can never object when someone steps over the line. Where hiding
problems from adults is the ironclad rule because their involvement only makes
situations worse.
Boy world
is governed by social hierarchies and a powerful set of unwritten rules that
have huge implications for your boy’s relationships, his interactions with you,
and the man he’ll become. If you want what’s best for him, you need to know
what these rules are and how to work with them effectively.
What
you’ll find in Masterminds and Wingmen is critically important for every parent
– or anyone who cares about boys – to know. Collaborating with a large team of
middle- and high-school-age editors, Rosalind Wiseman has created an
unprecedented guide to the life your boy is actually experiencing – his
on-the-ground reality. Not only does
Wiseman challenge you to examine your assumptions, she offers innovative coping
strategies aimed at helping your boy develop a positive, authentic, and strong
sense of self.
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